Suryananda, 

The ying and yang concept is confusing but it is also presented in a simplistic way which is of little use in spiritual life.

In nature we find that hostility is a recuring force. Disruption recurs. Chaos recurs. Physicists prove that the basis of this is entropy or disorder. Hence to say that order or balance must be everywhere is silly. Suppose you bring something to order, how long will you keep it there?

Nature eats away at every arrangement humans make. Nature is relentless in this pursuit, to damage whatever is freshly created. We are resigned to disorder but we fight back for the time being, whenever nature has a slot in time, where it relaxes its hold on circumstances for chaos.

Males cannot harmonize if they are not supported from within. But they can agree to realize their prejudice and hasty conclusions as being incorrect. That may not remove their innate feelings but in another part of the mind, they can decide to go against what their false intuition is telling them,