Visited by a deceased friend
Meditationtime Forum Post
Date: Posted 6 years before Sep 14, 2018
Darren 6 years ago
This is a query a friend sent me regarding a dream she had last night.
"I had a really vivid dream last night that my dead friend spoke to me. I was awakened by the experience. She didn't appear in human form but did so as a dust-smoke that was dark green with gold glitter in it and it surrounded my whole body. I felt her presence there."
I then asked her could she provide any more details:
Her response:
"The background is that she died and I didn't know she was ill. I really admired her as a friend and she was the first boss I had. In the dream i said to her "You came to see me?" And she said "Of course I did!!" .... I couldn't see a human but heard her voice clear as day and felt her all around me and the dust that was her energy swirled around me. She said to me "It's great!" Which I took as great where she is now. And then I awoke startled. I was anxious to look around the room. I definitely felt her presence.
My friend is really curious about what this experience could have been and is there any way that with the details given she could indeed verify that she was visited by her dead friend?
Thanks.
MiBeloved 6 years ago
The deceased person, the boss, was happy to make the contact and was trying for some time to assure your friend that she (the deceased one) was doing okay and still existed on the astral side in the so called spiritual world or ghost realm.
It took a tremendous amount of mental exertion for that person to cause her astral body to be seen as if it was made of a dust-smoke energy. There was a necessity for this but it took exertion and concentration and the deceased person was glad to get it over and done with finally. She must have been trying to do this for a time now and was unable to.
It means that your friend, the living person, had been rejecting and denying mental messages and mental hunches and intuitive contact with the deceased person. This happens because we are conditioned from birth not to believe in an afterlife and we have a mental block which we hedge up further with a belief in science and a belief only in what can be proven objectively. We train ourselves to have no confidence in intuition and to think that it is all imagination.
This deceased person was thinking repeatedly into the head of the person over on this side, but that person was replying in bits and pieces and then shutting down the conversation and also thinking that it was all just going on in her head but this was frustrating to the lady on the other side.
In the dimension of the dream, the deceased person was using an astral body which was made of the material which the atmosphere was made of there, thus her body was just the same as the air and could not be seen visually but by mental exertion she was able to create the dust about her form and that was perceived.
Usually when such persons from the other side are making such effort to contact someone here, there is usually something which the deceased wants the living person to do in this physical world. So to find out what that is, one has to sit silently and meditate trying to reach that person and then remain silent and receive any mental or emotional energy from the deceased person.
This energy will usually be converted into something that is definite and legible in the mind. That is how one might know.
Anyway that deceased woman wants to just be with the person on this side, to stay with this person where this person lives.
When one is deceased and one is lonely and one does not find anyone in the astral world whom one wants to be with, and then one turns back to look into the physical world for company.
About a month ago some persons whom I knew about 40 years ago in the West Indies, contacted me and wanted to know when I would pass away. When I asked why they were wondering about that, they said that they intended to stay on the astral world until I would leave my body and then we could all be together. So I told them, “You are crazy because when I leave my body, there is no telling what I will do and I certainly will not be hanging around with you people. You are my friends but you are not yogis. I am a yogi. Why do you think I want to come back into the physical existence as your relatives? That is madness that I will reincarnate with you people. Please go on and get your new bodies if you can. Do not wait on me because I am not going to be taking birth with you people even though you are my friends.”
So that sort of thing happens. Sometimes I have about 4 people who find me as soon as my physical body sleeps and they are saying they want to stay with Me. These are deceased persons who are waiting for the opportunity for rebirth. So I do not reject them but I do not mislead them either. I am always making it clear that I do not give a hoot about anybody unless it is one of my yoga gurus.
I am not Jesus Christ, I am not going to save anybody like that with that sort of spiritual authority. But the least I can do is to save my own arse. If I find a method that works, I can share that. That much I will do.
One thing you can learn from this Darren is what I said in the sex you!* book about how a person first fuses into the emotions of one of the parents before taking a body. Just as your friend felt the presence of that person, that sort of feeling of the person is the person. It is the person’s psyche being felt and it can fuse into her body and then come out as a child later on, as her infant. If you want to use the term merge into the person you can but such mergence is temporary only as the person would again separate out as an infant after a pregnancy.
*http://www.michaelbeloved.com/sex-you
Darren 6 years ago
Thank you, I forwarded your response onto my friend.
It's funny you should mention the Sex You book as I actually gave her a lend of that book to her when I went on my travels so she will be familiar to an extent of what you are saying.
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This is what my friend had to say:
Thanks for that response there I appreciate it! Cecilia is the name f my friend and she has been on my mind a lot and was with me a lot in Greencastle, when I was looking out at the beautiful view she would be in my thoughts to such an extent I’ve mentioned it to my husband and found myself chattering in my own head and questioning if she was in my house and could see me.
Im grateful for the effort she made to make contact with me and I will trust that she is looking out for me and letting me know that things are all ok. I feel very privileged she picked me and I know she was so fond of me and I her.
