Subtle Sex Solutions
Meditationtime Forum Post
Date: Posted 8 years before Jul 07, 2018
MiBeloved 8 years ago
Email Inquiry:
I have been having long meditation session (30 – 40 mins) locating women whom I had sexual relationships with and who I am no longer in touch with physically. I am using these opportunities in meditation to give them whatever sexual energy they need to reduce the pressure which I feel from time to time in relation to them. By this I mean mental and emotional pressure.
What I have discovered, is that some encounters are much more intense than others. What causes that intensity? Is it due to the level of attraction to that person or how badly the ancestors wanted you to get a body through that particular person?
MiBeloved’s Remark:
It is possible to relieve some pressure and to solve out some sexual attractions through meditation but some of those relations cannot be solved out in that way. You should be able to tell by the way the energy moves in meditation. More or less sexual energy is a recurring force. It does not take an absolute no for an answer. I come back again and sometimes it comes back when you are existentially unable to resist it.
However one should make the effort to solve out these karmic equations. That is the least a yogi can do. Knowing that all of it cannot be solved out is no excuse for not endeavoring with the ones that you can terminate. In addition some which cannot be solved can be decreased if you face up to the energy and deal with it in an effective way. There is no hard and fast rule, but I can say that if you have a fire you can put it out with water.
Actually that is not true. What is true is:
We can put out certain types of fires with water. Other types expand further if you apply water. So each of these relationships require personal attention and care to see what you can do to bring them to an end, that is if you can actually do that.
It may be that some females are perpetually connected to a specific yogi eternally and as such he cannot really get away from the said women. Therefore he should not try to do so. He should instead try to regulate those relationships.
The idea that everything is linear and equal is hogwash. Everywhere you go you will find disparities. In sex it is the same thing in that there will be a stronger attraction to specific females. Or in the case of heterosexual women, varied attraction to specific males.
Something to consider however is that such attraction may or may not be an indication of your deeper relationships with these persons. For instance, I had a very strong and irresistible attraction to Jane Goodlooking in a previous life. When I met her in this life, she was using a body which as 75 years of age. I used a body which was just 15 years of age. Subsequently I felt some attraction to her but it was not as strong as my attraction to Rosie Thicklip, who is just 14 years of age and who was my grandmother in a past life.
Why the change in attraction:
It is due to the fact that the sex appeal of a person, though an eternal attribute is supported or squelched by the condition of the material body.
As you indicated ancestral energy is also involved, such that one may become strongly attracted to a not-so-sexy female, if the ancestors possess that person’s sexual energy. Sometimes a person gets married in a huff and puff, and then about 4 or 5 years after, they are at a loss to explain why the marriage ever took place.
So that person begins to muse,
Why did I do this? What did I see in that person to whom I now have a commitment? This is crazy. I want a divorce. I was obviously not in my right mind when I did this.”
I dealt with most of these matters in the sex you book.
You can rest assured and never have any doubts about this, that the ancestors are a part of any impulsive and irresistible sexual encounters.
Kreepamaya1951 8 years ago
How can one become aware that the ancestors are an integral part of all sexual attractions in the physical dimensions, I know this person right now, who is madly in love, but who also claims that she is interested in yoga, spirituality and all of that jazz, and so your insinuating that her feelings for him are just the influences of her ancestors.
What you’re saying maybe factual, but what is the process whereby people can acquire the power to perceive these actions of the ancestors as you are perceiving?