How I fell in love in the previous life

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Date:  Posted 6 years before Aug 30, 2018

MiBeloved 6 years ago

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Recently I dream about my ex boyfriend a lot. We have broken up about 2 years. As he hurt me so much so I’ve trying to forget him. Is that means my ex boyfriend's subconscious mind also wants to meet me? Or just because of my mind always thinking of him affect that I dream about him?

MiBeloved’s Response:

Boyfriend and girlfriend usually mean that there were past lives of association in the same way as lovers. This is an assumption we should always make. The least we should understand is that if I knew someone in a past life and had a crush on that person and was unable to fulfill that love, then when I meet that person in this or in a future life, I will be wonderstruck again by the person and will again be attracted and will again fall in love.

I met someone some years ago about 40 years ago. I did not realize at the time that this person has a crush on me. Then suddenly I had this dream that I was making love to this person. So what is that? I had no feelings of love for that person 40 years ago. The relationship was just casual, and somehow that person’s affection for me increased exponentially for me in my 40 year physical and astral absence, and then by the force of that increase of affection, I met the person in a dream and that person was all over me so how did that affection change like this and why did that person’s subtle body develop the power to pull me into a dream for sexual love?

I will let you think about these matters deeply.

Both the conscious and subconscious minds are wonder struck by sex and love. But these two systems of awareness act differently. The conscious mind is concerned with the now, with the present situation. The subconscious mind in the background does not care about the present because it has a long ranged reach into the past energies that are stock-piles and it is the architect which constructs the limited circumstances which I will find myself in the future. This might be compared to a local police department and the FBI.

The local police department makes itself present by using squad cars which have blaring lights and sirens. They make a big fuss about current crimes. The FBI moves silently and they are concerned about subtle and big, highly-organized criminal activities. So like the FBI, the subconscious moves in the background with vast power over the citizens, while the local police departments are driving around making noise catching petty crooks.

The subconscious is very dangerous. In yoga, one is trained to dig into it and to understand how it operates. This is because it can undermine the conscious mind and make a complete fool out of the conscious self which plans and tries to fulfill desires.

Information and memory energy which is stored in the subconscious may come back to haunt someone, just as something a politician did privately in an email two years ago, may be retrieved by his rival and used to disgrace the politician in public. Therefore the subconscious can attack at any time to cause one to falter.

Affairs like man and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend are the most difficult situations to resolve and they usually leap over into the next life. Conjugal love is the strongest impression in the emotional baggage we are carrying with us through these lives. As such it will always come back to haunt and taunt us. So yes, love affairs do not end just because we are at a distance from a person we love or loved in the past.

Most of the hurt one feels because of disagreements and disloyalties in sexual relationships, have to do with disharmonious cultural trappings which the lover has picked up after taking the new body. When we fail to work through those cultural differences, flare-ups occur and we get suffering instead of happiness. It tears the emotional fabric of our being and then we have to try to sew that all back together and move on.

Deep meditation can and does help to resolve these issues satisfactorily. There is a nice book from India called the Bhagavad Gita. Krishna, a person who claimed himself as the Supreme Being, said in that book that passion is the enemy of the self. He claimed that passion when experienced begins with nectar but then the same nectar converts into poison. There might be some truth in this. Check it out.