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A uniquely meaningful sharing that lead to an important and cautionary explanation from the guru. It appears that whatever the body, responsibility and right usage is far superior to the habitual self aggrandizing identification to the form (male, female or perhaps even animal).
Regarding advancement, it boils down to one’s ability and/or facility to reform the subtle body, more so than the glaring and blinding social shenanigans. The physical body along with its genitalia configuration end up in dust for certain, the sum total of the works and actions impacting the subtle one is the concern.
One the other hand, such notion/insight as you confide may be helpful in having a more harmonious relationship with your partner, as it is possible that your energy won’t come of to her as a pompous chauvinistic male, a tendency that is much disliked and sometimes despised in modern settings. There several online groups of such rejected and jaded males who unable to see into the finer details, use their opportunity to regroup in order to hate women (for what may be their own failures or shortcomings).
Additionally, psychosocially speaking, the modern configurations of families has become up hazard, and yes the nurturers (females) end up with the rearing of the progeny who in turn absorbs their influence (sometimes with a bias against the defunct male counterparts). Several posts even on our site have as of late depicted the increasing irrelevance of males and the contrasted advancement of women on all levers of society bar none.
Those who have the flexibility to adapt to societal changes, I see as more favorable. Resistance is often futile as we aren’t the masters we see ourselves as in our limited human minds. Despite the energy imbalance in households, a modern affluent boy is molded with a psyche that is more compatible to his future connections with his modern female counterparts.
That said, some males in similar setting may still be macho, as a king on a hill with only bat to swing around. But they can carry an imbalance that will negatively impact their ability to maintain a positive family environment in these accelerated changing times.
This reply/post is a general social analysis. I am not attempting to address specific scenarios. Though I find the symbolism of the caged lion and resulting reaction to it very apropos and interesting…